Cling Peaches

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If you follow my blog, then you will know that I am always interested in understanding the following phenomenon: How is it that you sign onto a gay meeting website like adam4adam and there are a thousand people online--yet no one is hooking up?

I used to think that it was just that people were picky.  But now I am beginning to think that its really because people are fucked out. 

Back in the 1980s, gay men just would have been happy to meet a guy who was a decent fuck.  Now that you can fuck twenty different guys pretty easily, no one wants the decent fuck anymore.  Now, they want the SUPER FUCK

I feel bad, because I am guilty of this as well. I am thinking about a guy that I had sex with a few months ago.  The sex was decent and actually enjoyable.  His face wasn't so cute, but his body was nice, and his dick and ass were pretty good. He was into me, and made it very clear that he wanted to get with me on a regular basis.

So why didn't I want to get with him?

Well actually now that I think about it.  He got a little clingy.

After sex he wanted to rub on me. And when he started doing this, I just wanted him to get away from me. I was hesitant to call him back, not because I wanted someone better looking--but because I knew he seemed to want more. Now don't get me wrong, I would have no problems grabbing a quick bite to eat with him or watching television--but justnot all cuddled up together.  I just wanted to be friends...that had really great sex together.

Hmmm...I kinda want to give him a call now.

I think I will.

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Comments

[Blue in Green]

What exactly do you want? Dang this is the second guy you've been with that was by your standards enjoyable. So far if you're too short, fat, or clinging -- dump them.

[summer]

"in the abundance of water the fool is thirsty."

[carl]

That is why so many brothers find themselves alone, disappointed and bitter by the time their 35 or 40 ... holding out for something bigger and better, which never really seems to come along ... when u wanna relationship it's never there, when u wanna just screw, the best screw never really jumps into ur arms ... seems to be the way of the world ..

But I hear ya ... Lots of dudes are emotionally needy and cling cause they prolly waited some time to find someone decent and that person is not on same page emotionally ... Or, they just fall for guys when the sex is bangin, which can open up all kinds of emotions and feelings

just sucks doesn't it?

But I think people need to be a little more clearer where they stand emotionally (at all stages) ... Let's face it, guys hate pressure and work when it comes to someone's else mental upkeep ... But sometimes it's just real nice to cuddle and coo, WITH THE RIGHT GUY, if he knows that is "in the moment thing" and not to start thinking relationship or boy-friend mode ...

Winter time is coming Bernard ... call that brotha ...LOL!

[mysta3]

I hope he answers the phone...*LOL*.

[TJ]

Watched Noah's Arc last nite twice....the pilot was good.

[paco]

why "cling peaches"?