I lied yesterday. I did do something with CONTRAST, the chocolate skinned dark man with the contrasting characteristic...
...I let him eat my ass for about 20 minutes. Now that might not seem like a long time, but I dare you to get a stopwatch and time someone eating your ass for that long. I would have went to sleep on my back with my legs in the air, if he hadn't kept annoyingly sucking hard on my asshole. It was an uncomfortable and unpleasant experience.
But eventually he wanted me to sit on his face. The whole visual in retrospect grosses me out--but it made a certain feature of his anatomy rise. I started playing with his dick in my hand and I could see that he was close to an orgasm. So I started riding his face saying, You like licking that hairy ass don't you? I could feel his muffled moans in my butt. He was about to cum. I kept telling him to eat me ass, and eventually he shot all over himself.
As I mentioned yesterday, I was extremely horny. I really wanted to come. I was content with masturbating--all I wanted to do was lay back, lick on his chest a little, and have him talk a little shit to me.
So I laid back on a pillow, lubed up my dick, and started masturbating. But instead of talking shit to me, he did an orgasm don't.
An orgasm dont, as you can imagine, are things you just shouldn't do if you want your partner to have a thrilling and enjoyable climax. For example, if you are fucking a bottom--don't slow your stroke before he comes--keep it steady or speed it up--but don't slow down! That's an orgasm don't. Another orgasm don't is to be having sex with someone and right before he comes, look at the television when you hear the latest Beyoncé video pop up on the screen. That's an orgasm don't.
In this case, instead of CONTRAST talking shit to me, the only thing that he kept saying to me was, I want to see you cum. I want to see you shoot that cum. Are you getting close to coming? I really want to see that cum skeet up out of you.
Instead of talking me through sex and filling me with sexual banter about various sexual activities and what he would like to do to me--he kept reminding me that he wanted to see me cum. That was an orgasm don't. I eventually told him, If you stop talking about me cumming, and start getting me turned on, I might actually cum.
He just didn't have the verbal repertoire. So I never got close. I just told him that I wouldn't be able to cum and eventually he left.
Maybe I am too particular--but when I have sex with a guy I try to get into his mind and I use my voice and physical strength to create situations that make them want to come. It's the difference between telling someone to call you Papi, and making them want to call you Papi.
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You lied?
Posted by: Blue in Green | Wednesday, 01 March 2006 at 09:47 AM
If he isn't going to keep me going while I get myself off, and be "present" then he might as well leave me alone. Hit the right triggers, but don't demand that I cum. This is different from the trigger of when he says "cum for me" when I am oh-so-ready.
You gave him what he wanted, he should have been able to do the same for you. Interesting how fragile that edge can be.
Posted by: ~Storm | Sunday, 30 October 2005 at 11:06 AM
A 20 minute rimm job! Man, that's a warm up for me, but maybe that's because I love rimming a man's ass (it's a long story of how that came to be, but like some guys love sucking dick, me I enjoy eating ass). And when done correctly, you can rimm a guy for hours and he'll orgasm, trust me!
But this character, he did everything wrong! I hate when guys become too obsessed with cumming. Like you said, keep me turned on and it will happen. But I've had more than my share of guys who, as soon as you get inside them are already talking about, I can't wait until you unload.
HELLO?!
So I try and avoid guys who like to race to the cum line because if you're having great sex, believe me you will get off!
Posted by: thatguyheath | Thursday, 27 October 2005 at 04:57 PM
im sorry i have to laugh at the response given by Rob...lmao....
Posted by: P. Alonzo Harris Jr. | Wednesday, 26 October 2005 at 06:07 PM
im sorry i have to laugh at the response given by the first posts...lmao....
Posted by: P. Alonzo Harris Jr. | Wednesday, 26 October 2005 at 06:04 PM
I usually like your post but this post made me what to vomit. The whole ass eating thing turned my stomach. TMI
Posted by: Rob | Wednesday, 26 October 2005 at 08:32 AM
20 minutes of eating ass?? That's ridiculous. The whole sexual act from the first touch to the hot towel should only last that long.
Posted by: That Dude Right There | Tuesday, 25 October 2005 at 10:49 PM
I listened to your podcast for one of the first times and just wishing you good vibes at work ;)
Posted by: Boogie | Tuesday, 25 October 2005 at 07:10 PM
Another great story ... I will never understand anything more than 7 minutes of ass-eating ...
Most times when guys cum the entire thrill of moment just subsides big time and it feels like a chore to get the other guy to cum ... I have just wanted to scream when a guy cums before me and he gets all lackadaisical and shyt about getting me off ...
I have been guilty myself ... In the heat of moment everyone is on same page but I have cum first and get frustrated when it takes another guy much longer to cum ... I can think of all types of shyt to say but after a while it just becomes like, "no matter what I say it's u, ur mental state and ur dick" ... i just start sucking on nipples or balls or something ...
And mainly most guys want to see another guy cum so it's all about watching u bust ...
But again ur right ... cumming is a shared experience and both partners should be hitting all cylinders at the same time and verbal commication is so key ...
If I'm with a guy and he consistently has a hard time cumming for whaterver reason, he gets the boot ... no, Bernard ur are not too particular, u just need what u need
Posted by: carl | Tuesday, 25 October 2005 at 01:04 PM
Another great story ... I will never understand anything more than 7 minutes of ass-eating ...
Most times when guys cum the entire thrill of moment just subsides big time and it feels like a chore to get the other guy to cum ... I have just wanted to scream when a guy cums before me and he gets all lackadaisical and shyt about getting me off ...
I have been guilty myself ... In the heat of moment everyone is on same page but I have cum first and get frustrated when it takes another guy much longer to cum ... I can think of all types of shyt to say but after a while it just becomes like, "no matter what I say it's u, ur mental state and ur dick" ... i just start sucking on nipples or balls or something ...
And mainly most guys want to see another guy cum so it's all about watching u bust ...
But again ur right ... cumming is a shared experience and both partners should be hitting all cylinders at the same time and verbal commication is so key ...
If I'm with a guy and he consistently has a hard time cumming for whaterver reason, he gets the boot ... no, Bernard ur are not too particular, u just need what u need
Posted by: carl | Tuesday, 25 October 2005 at 01:02 PM
shit, I just fall asleep when people eat me out. Its like a massage... um... but in the ass
Posted by: Paco | Tuesday, 25 October 2005 at 08:02 AM
Wow...20 minutes of tossing salad? That does sound boring.
Posted by: mysta3 | Tuesday, 25 October 2005 at 01:43 AM