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Thursday, 29 June 2006

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Perla

The second time I ever had sex (with the man who is now my hsnbaud, but was my boyfriend at the time), he slipped out, but not all the way out. For a while afterwards, we couldn't even have sex at all, as the pain of him even attempting to put his penis inside me was just too much. I found that putting a pillow under my lower back and butt and using some lube until my body was used to sex solved the problem. Occasionally I do still have some pain during sex, but that's mostly from my lack of physical abilities.

Boogie

Thanks for the tip ;)

Fratman1906

You nailed this one just right. The hottest sex I had was with someone where we both disturbed the neighbors with our grunts, moans and talk. Whew, lawd. I wonder what his name was. I just remember the sex. LOL.

Fratman1906

You nailed this one just right. The hottest sex I had was with someone where we both disturbed the neighbors with our grunts, moans and talk. Whew, lawd. I wonder what his name was. I just remember the sex. LOL.

taylor Siluwé

This is so true, sounds mean a whole helluva lot. I've always believed the more vocal I get the better the sex.

Talking to my partner, and having him respond, is the ultimate connection for me.

Quentin Ergane

Ok, so, I think most sex talk is really stupid, right? But when Rye is behind me and says something in that husky low voice of his... damn, damn, DAMN!

You know what you are missing tho? It isn't so much that people *talk*, but that people COMMUNICATE when they are having sex with each other. People treat having sex with someone else much the same way you'd treat a watermelon you happened to fuck... like a thing only there to make you nut.

Nut... no pleasure. And why are we having sex if NOT for the pleasure????

... and communication of said pleasure.

A look, raising of eyebrows, the body moving in this way or that... communication can be nonverbal as well... just has to be there... else, you might as well fuck a microwaved corpse.....

Liquid Fonts

so true, nothing is more of a turn off than a silent sex partner.

4Gotten1

I love this post it really gave me something to think about when i take that plunge back into sex.

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