• Not a story of a Manolo Blahnik obsessed autosycophant and her 3 friends going to different nightly Manhattan spots. I am a thirtysomething black man on Chicago's southside who rarely has more than $50 in the bank after bills, shops at H&M, and realizes that in order to have great sex and fun encounters, you don't have to be rich, athletic, or even that cute--just be available. Enjoy Sex and the Second City

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Monday, 26 June 2006



if u cant trust a gay in a bath house looking for sex, who can u trust ?


glad u're HIV test came back negative. did you get tested for other STDs, maybe get a tuberculosis test? (i'm not a doctor but night sweats can also be a symptom of something else like TB) not trying to scare you. just thought you might want to check for further peace of mind.



cute picture


i would never think to go to a bathhouse for an hiv test... or even to have sex there prior to getting tested! lol

it's great to know that the Sex has returned. you've been missed!


"damn only you would go to a bathouse for an HIV test and have sex before having the test taken!"

LOL, I thought I was the only one who found that funny. WB though


Welcome back...I'm so boring...I went to Steamworks and got tested..and that was it. Then again, I didn't see anyone I wanted to get with and nobody bothered me either.

Quentin Ergane

I missed you.

Guys like Rivera I used to call "shadow" types -- because they are not real. But I understand it better now, sometimes, you don't want to be yourself, but to create that kind of elaborate life for yourself... borders on pathological.

How are you, Hon?


You are off the hook. You had sex before a hiv test. Most people would be sweeting bullets thinking about the possible results.


damn only you would go to a bathouse for an HIV test and have sex before having the test taken!

Cash S

Oh wow look who has returned.

Glad everything checked out on the health tip!

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