Over the next few years I hope that you enjoy this BLOG about me and the emotional (and sexual) lives of me and my friends--and the greatest city in the world, CHICAGO!!! Hopefully, they will make you laugh and help you reflect on your own lives. Before we get started, why don't I tell you a little bit about myself--or at least show you how most people see me on the Internet.
But more than anything, hopefully we can learn about relationships and love and sex--and get to learn a lot more about Chicago in the meanwhile. So with that said, LET THE BLOGGING BEGIN!
It might help to get started by letting folks know that I am what you call, an Internet whore. My primary means of meeting men--and finding sexual partners, is to meet them through web sites, chat rooms--you name it. If I've met a guy, there's usually been some electricity between us--and I don't mean sparks, I mean like a computer screen or a DSL connection. So it might help you to learn a little bit more about me, if you see what other people see when I am on the Internet:
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On AOL my email address is: [email protected]
Bernard Bradshaw
Location: Chicago (The Second City)
Sex: Male
Marital Status: Single, but looking for Mr. Big
Hobbies & Interests: thirtysomething 6'1 200lbs 34w Blk/brn Bright smile & supple lips. Masculine voice. Great legs. I am a man, not into roles (can be versatile).. I have a high (sex) drive, and I like to use it. Good sense of humor.
I sip virgin coladas not cosmopolitans, wear Zegna not Blahnik. My vice is milkshakes not cigarettes.
Occupation: Writer and Ethnographer. Part-time sex coach (smile).
Personal Quote: Someone asked me once, "Is sex the only thing you are looking for this evening?" And I responded, "Sex is NEVER the only thing I am looking for...But I AM always looking for it."
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Ok so you know a little bit about me. Also, know that I have a best friend, his name is Darnell (Ill be refering to him as Dee), and while we are from the same city, we don't get to see each other that often. He has an Italian boyfriend--and I mean from the country--who has an accent that brings all the boys to the yard (well all the white boys, and those black boys that are into that sort of thing). His name is Alberto, and if he weren't so fucking nice and sweet to me, I'd probably have to kill him, as he is a definite attention magnet (or so I could tell from the few times we've gone out together).
But as for me, I am currently in the search for the best sex of my life. And I want you to tune in and join me as I go looking for Mr. Goodbar.
... oh, I love reading your blog. Have only been reading it here and there for the last two weeks, but Oh... I am in love.
I am new to Blog, but I have had a livejournal for almost 5 years now. I want to do what you are doing -- bringing it *every* day.
So far, I am pretty horrible. But *shrugs* It's hard to talk about your life and harder when you *know* no one is listening and when there are so many FABULOUS Blogs out there like this one that make you feel... you know, insignificant. But it's late and my B/black ass is underslept and sexed.
... people who think partnering with someone means constant sex should get their fucking heads examined.
Peace,
Q
Posted by: Quentin | Monday, 25 April 2005 at 05:57 AM